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Wedding Speeches

Traditionally speeches take place after the wedding breakfast and before the cutting of the cake. The traditional order for speeches is the father of the bride, then the bridegroom and finally the best man.

These days, however, many people chose to have speeches before the wedding meal, in a different order, and with a speech from the bride or chief bridesmaid too. There is usually a master of ceremonies who introduces speakers, which the venue may provide for you if you wish.

Here are some hints to consider when writing your wedding speech…

Don't make the speech too long. People may switch off.
Its nice to include some humour, but don't do it for the sake of it and make sure you can pull it off.
Practise your speech a number of times, perhaps to another person so they can give you some hints.
Try not to deliver your speech exactly from how it is written down. It will sound too rehearsed and possibly insincere. Instead, use prompt cards to remind you of each section of your speech.
Remember that most weddings are family affairs and include children so make sure you don't swear or say anything that anyone else may find offensive.
Remember to do a toast at the end of your speech and ensure thankyou's are covered by you or someone else.

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Wedding Speeches